I love this analogy for Happiness!
I think of myself as a very nice person.
But a few days ago, I got a challenge to my niceness.
Something very nice happened to someone I dislike.
And I found myself irritated. Bitter even.
Certainly not nice.
Of course nice things happen to people who don’t deserve it.
And who is a better judge of who deserves it than me?
Well, maybe not me.
So I had to confront the fact that by not being happy when nice things happen to certain people, I may – a tiny bit – actually want bad things to happen to certain people.
That does not make me such a nice person.
I thought about this for quite a long time. At least 35 minutes. Maybe 40.
Because the truth is, it doesn’t take that long to find mistakes in your thinking – as long as you open yourself up to that…
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